The Kiss of XXX

     Gentle. Soft. Calm. Delicately caressing my own tongue with sensual rotations.
      It is the most underrated yet integral part to lovemaking, the kiss. Most of us
learned to kiss in our adolescent years. We experimented with boys and girls in an attempt
to perfect our technique and because we experienced this at such a young age, maybe we
forgot how important it is or it lost it's excitement.
      Well I beg to differ. Nothing turns me on more than a passionate kiss from a
lover. I have only met a few men who have truly satiated my desire for erotic kissing and
those few men ended up being the ones that I had the most intense sex with.
      A deep lustful kiss is my ideal foreplay scenario - slowly, deliberately, genuinely.
The key to an amazing kissing session is that it is not hurried or rushed. The perfect
build-up as I run my fingers up and down his stomach while he caresses my thigh.
      I've spoken to quite a few people and I've found out that a bad kisser is a deal
breaker for a relationship and I 100% agree. I also don't just kiss anyone, like if I'm
having a one night stand I rarely will kiss the person because kissing to me is way more
intimate than having sex.
      That may sound weird to some people, but I can easily disconnect my truly
intimate feelings when just having casual sex and I don't think that person's reached that
level to be kissing them.
      The eroticism of a sensuous kiss can excite me to unparalleled levels of
lascivious pleasure which, for me, can replace any other kind of foreplay. Give me a great
kisser over someone who's great at oral sex any day.
      Over the years I've found that women kiss much more to my liking than most
men do. It doesn't feel so contrived or definite. I find with guys they are overly excited
about what pleasure is yet to come so they can't focus on the carnal moment of salacious
kissing.
      I think the key for guys to always remember is that the slower you take it, the
wetter we get. Don't anticipate the climax that you're soon to be feeling, instead stay in the
moment and take it slowly and passionately.
      If you really want to stand out in a girl's mind then brush up on your kissing
skills. I had a succulent make-out session the other day and I can't seem to get the guy out
of my head now. Remembering the groping and lush kisses is much
more memorable than just a good pounding. So guys keep that in mind.

A Pioneer of Pornography

    Betty Paige. Classic Pin-up Queen.
I want to pay homage to this brave woman who made her foray into the taboo world of Pin-up modeling in the late 50's.
    She risked ridicule by friends and family when she modeled for pin-up photo shoots and paved the way for all strong, sexually confident women to come.
    Betty is personally one of my heroes.

Tune in.. Turn on.. Get f**cked

     So we talked about what turns a man on now let's talk about what turns a
woman on. I'm curious if the same things turn most women on. Almost every woman I've
ever talked to about sex me the same thing.. that they feel like they don't get enough time
devoted to foreplay. It's true, so many guys just want to rush things because they get so
excited. A lot of them just don't understand that it's a physiological fact that we need time
to properly get aroused where as they can go from 0-100 in a few minutes. This is where
foreplay comes into the picture. Trust me, there are sometimes that we just wanna get
pounded hard and fast but we still need a little coaxing at the beginning.
      What turns me on is something completely different. I love when a man is
slightly aggressive and takes the reigns. As I've said before that in each sexual encounter I
feel that women are truly in control but I like the illusion that he is the one in control. I like
when a guy makes the first move on me not overly aggressive but letting me know that he's
calling the shots(even though he really isn't).
      The biggest part of what turns me on is just seeing a guy becoming aroused in
his pants by watching me or by something that I'm doing. I love having the feeling that
someone is eating out of my hand and hanging on my every move. The more I feel he's
becoming excited because of me, the hotter I get. Again it's the illusion of control. I may not
be physically controlling the situation but psychologically, I am.
      My other major turn on is pretending that we're being filmed or actually filming
 us having sex. I also love watching him and I in a mirror or off some sort of reflection.
Again, it's slightly exhibition/voyeuristic without being too exposed.
      Numerous times I've made videos or clips of me giving oral sex and sometimes
I'll play them back during foreplay of our next sexual encounter. There's something
mischievous and exciting about knowing others are watching, even if in reality it's just a
camera watching.
     Even if I'm not recording the tryst I like to role play that we're porn stars just to
get that feeling that all eyes are on me. Try it out next time.. get dressed up all sexy with the
hair and make-up and make the sexy faces and the sounds that you think are arousing. In
reality, you're just turning yourself on and nobody knows better what turns you on than
you do.