Tune in.. Turn on.. Get f**cked

     So we talked about what turns a man on now let's talk about what turns a
woman on. I'm curious if the same things turn most women on. Almost every woman I've
ever talked to about sex me the same thing.. that they feel like they don't get enough time
devoted to foreplay. It's true, so many guys just want to rush things because they get so
excited. A lot of them just don't understand that it's a physiological fact that we need time
to properly get aroused where as they can go from 0-100 in a few minutes. This is where
foreplay comes into the picture. Trust me, there are sometimes that we just wanna get
pounded hard and fast but we still need a little coaxing at the beginning.
      What turns me on is something completely different. I love when a man is
slightly aggressive and takes the reigns. As I've said before that in each sexual encounter I
feel that women are truly in control but I like the illusion that he is the one in control. I like
when a guy makes the first move on me not overly aggressive but letting me know that he's
calling the shots(even though he really isn't).
      The biggest part of what turns me on is just seeing a guy becoming aroused in
his pants by watching me or by something that I'm doing. I love having the feeling that
someone is eating out of my hand and hanging on my every move. The more I feel he's
becoming excited because of me, the hotter I get. Again it's the illusion of control. I may not
be physically controlling the situation but psychologically, I am.
      My other major turn on is pretending that we're being filmed or actually filming
 us having sex. I also love watching him and I in a mirror or off some sort of reflection.
Again, it's slightly exhibition/voyeuristic without being too exposed.
      Numerous times I've made videos or clips of me giving oral sex and sometimes
I'll play them back during foreplay of our next sexual encounter. There's something
mischievous and exciting about knowing others are watching, even if in reality it's just a
camera watching.
     Even if I'm not recording the tryst I like to role play that we're porn stars just to
get that feeling that all eyes are on me. Try it out next time.. get dressed up all sexy with the
hair and make-up and make the sexy faces and the sounds that you think are arousing. In
reality, you're just turning yourself on and nobody knows better what turns you on than
you do.